Infidelity, So What

You may get me on this one but so what, that’s what blogs are for, right? Infidelity, I like talking about sex because I like sex.

Mr. Spitzer and Mr. Kilpatrick and Mr. Clinton and 99/44/100% of all men, in other words, the whole male species, must cum, if they like it or not, this is going to happen. God made us this way. We must cum just like we must go to the bathroom. Now, here’s the $64,000 question. When we cum, how, what, who, where, and when will it happen. With each and every one of us it’s different. That difference is called a fetish.

The fetish is in our imagination. Men will forever chase their fetish. It’s that simple. This has nothing against the mate. In fact if the mate can satisfy the fetish then all is well. Can the mate accomplish this task? Let’s see. Our good book tells us, No sex before marriage. Our good book understands that submitting your self as you would unto God would cover fetishes. But, we don’t submit ourselves, we have issues. You see, If God asked us to do anything, because of faith we’d jump right to it or let’s say we should jump right to it. Now, if your mate asked you to do anything, in many cases, they’ll be issues. And because of issues, for us men, we won’t buy shoes without trying them on, but we also know you don’t get everything in one package. Man how good life could be if you had everything in one package. Women, this goes for you too. You could if you submit you self as you do unto God.

In our world of the microwave generation, (immediate gratification) we want what we want now, and we want it to come easy with no fanfare or questions. These kinds of thoughts along with the need to satisfy your fetish breed the trade of prostitution. Prostitutes give what you don’t have at home without any fanfare or questions with a smile. I’m in favor of legalized prostitution along with drugs even though I don’t use drugs or prostitutes. (I’ll explain later)

Women know what they give or don’t give at home but for men, its goes a little further then that. Remember you don’t get everything in one package so along with the fetish, imagination, shape, color, size, and sex of the one who performs that fetish comes into play. Women, Men, you can’t cover all the above. No one is Superman or should they be and neither are prostitutes, but you can get different prostitutes to satisfy as many of those categories as you wish.

I don’t agree that the Government should be in the business of managing my life about where I want to put my picker as long as it is between two consenting adults, nor should they have concern about the amount of the gift I give in order to close the deal, or how far away they travel to consummate the business transaction. That’s between me, my mate and my Creator. Prostitution is a business. If it were legal the crimes involved in the trade would go way down. Anything illegal creates crime and an underground economy.
If milk were illegal then milk would go underground and crime would occur.
We’d be better served by regulating then by eliminating. Yes they’ll be healthcare concerns, but we have dependencies now from drugs we do that’s legal. Plus, the people with healthcare concerns now because of drugs are in the system now even though drugs are illegal, so nothing changes, only the crime and money. Oh yes, money. Our underground economy creates jobs for the elimination. Without those jobs that industry would dissolve and so would a large portion of the economy. So, with that knowledge, what is the rest of the story?
Gaidi

The philosophical definition of change

We’ve been hearing a lot about change, but what does it mean? The dictionary says to make something different, alter, reshape, or transform, but is that enough? Is that what it really means? It sounds like the dictionary is talking about a thing rather then people. When you talk about changing people, then it’s philosophical. So, I’m going to try and explain using some of my teachings what change is to people so it’s not a fairy tale like some have said in this presidential campaign.

In order to have change something has to be identified or no change can take place. In the case of these elections, what can be identified is America’s national politics. Change is how we solve those problems. Before March this was getting boring so along came race and the ratings went off the chart. We are to the point now with race that the black church is now under attack. (Case in point, we are not going to renounce or deject the black church. I don’t care what racist whites want.) Now, change has gone from issues to each other.

Most people run away from change. Many people think that by changing there can be trouble. They don’t understand that there is peace in the mitts of the change and that running away from trouble doesn’t change anything. They run away searching for peace when the peace is in the middle of change. You can’t quit in the middle of your trouble because in the mitts of that trouble there might be the greatest reward you ever had in your life. There are too many people trying to find change where there’s calm and no need for it. So for Obama supporters don’t abandon the ship, it’s just rocking. Obama is not going to quit he’s going to stand until he gets what he came for and that’s the presidency regardless of the trouble because he knows that’s why he’s running in the first place. It’s the trouble of our Nation that inspired the phrase.

Sometime change bring on turbulence, trouble, and unrest, sometime it bring on feelings that we don’t want to always identify with, but if we’re going to better our future we’ve got to disturb those presences sometime. This happens in the black church in ways that the white racist and the ignorant don’t understand.

The first step to change is desire; you’ve got to desire it in order to get it.
Do you want it? Have you ever been dealing with something in your life that you feel that you’ve been dealing with it forever? Have you ever felt so hopeless that you thought not even Jesus could fix it? Well we’ve grown accustom to those thoughts and feelings. That’s what the present administration has succeeded in making us think and tolerate for over 28 years. I’m talking about Reagan, Bush, Clinton, Bush just look at this country. It’s about to fall. And that’s why we need to change. We’ve got to change those things that we’ve grown accustom to, or that we’ve learned to tolerate in our Government. So ask your self, do you want your country to get well from this poor administration, do you want the voice of the people to guide government rather then government guiding the people. Do you have the desire for change? Do you really want it? How bad do you want it? When Chaney was asked, The people want an end to this war. They don’t think it’s needed any more. The answer Chaney gave was So.
Listen, when you desire the need to succeed as much as you want to breathe, that’s when you will become great and that is in the heart of Obama, because you can only attack his color and his black experience to find something slightly wrong with your desire to change. Something will always come up to sap that desire but you must fight through it and let nothing get it the way to stop this desire for change. That’s what we can and must do. “Yes we can.”

Fear will keep you from change. Our fear of change is that we don’t believe we can change. When you are afraid to change you won’t have the desire to do it. You won’t try it because of the fear of failure. You don’t believe it will work, but it will work if you have the desire to make it work. I’ve got to say here that it’s the fear of the black experience that plagues Obama’s campaign for white people right now.

We perceive the need for change as an admittance of weakness. We don’t want to admit that we’re weak, so we keep deceiving ourselves about needing to change. Change is not weak or a fairy tail. It takes courage and strength to admit the truth. It takes a strong man to admit and carry out the truth. Obama did that in his speech. He had to look at himself in the mirror and say I’ve got to confront this issue and I’ve got to tell the truth in order to convince the non knowing that my blood and soul is with them and for this country that I love no matter what my surrounding or the path I may take in order to strengthen my Ideology. It takes strength to not go around in circles making excuses for the way you are. One of the most powerful things you can do as a Christian is to judge yourself. Obama did just that and then wrote his speech.

Next, we don’t like to unsettle things in our life. Why, because we settle for mediocrity. You can’t change not wanting to stir thing up (The black church), evangelist, and motivational speakers to name a few. We will settle for mediocrity when we can have a miracle in our life. Remember your miracle is waiting for you just inside of trouble, the ruff road or uncharted water. We settle for average because we don’t get off that beaten path because of fear or admitting to weakness. Most of us live in average because we want to settle for calm things. We settle for what people tell us or show us with out question. We settle for the media to shape our thinking with propaganda and sensationalism. You know who ever shapes you thinking shapes desire. If what you think, you don’t want, change you thinking. If what you see, you don’t want, then change what you see. If what you do, you don’t want, then change what you do. Obama doesn’t like what he sees or hears going on in government for the people. He feels it’s wrong and he knows if he can rally all the people that these wrongs effect then he can bring about the change each and every one of us needs and ask for. Check yourself and desire for change. Rid yourself of weakness and don’t run away from troubled waters then you will understand Obama’s message.
Gaidi

Why Why Why

I’m not surprised with the tactics white America is demonstrating against candidate Obama, and I use the word tactic rather then conspiracy. WHY,
because there’s no question that Obama was and still can win the Demarcated national nomination for President of the United States out right. The over whelming majority of the people in this country know already who they’re going to vote for. They’re just waiting their turn to vote. This money that’s spent campaigning is a waste. WHY, because you’re only trying to get the 3, 4, or 5% of the undecided. Anyone undecided at this time really never cared in the first place. It’s obvious that as this goes on only disaster can happen with damage to the party and candidates. Look at the speakers from the media get more and more argumentive and venomous in their discussions. Look at the lines being drawn in the sand about how it better be my candidate or else and the hell with the process.
Look, the pollsters and media have already been to the remaining states that still have primaries pending and they know that the remaining states are Obama dominate virtually eliminating Hillary’s chances to win even a brokers convention in August. The Media had to play on Michigan and Florida. WHY, for Hillary. These states are supposedly Hillary’s. She needs them very, very badly. The tactic comes in by destroying Obama with something from some place or some where that will upset his dominance in the remaining states causing a better argument for Hillary’s nomination.
As far as I am concerned, the damage is done, and the Democratic Party is domed. The party is split and it was split at all cost because of the Clintons, and race. The Clintons are desperate. They’re not presidential and can’t believe that Obama who came from nowhere that know one new is out campaigning them, from raising money, organization, votes, substance, and composure under fire. The statements Obama has released and his interviews under pressure, along with the negative exposure of ignorance where he is concern this campaign year, is a testament to his leadership.
It’s becoming more and more obvious that race is the issue and that the real issues has been exhausted and are no longer news worthy. Finding bull feces on the candidates is the order of business. WHY, because it’s exciting, glamorous, sales ratings and newspapers.
Gaidi

Racism Take a Bow

Why does black America have to validate their ideology to white America? They won’t get it even if told, it won’t compute. Listen, white people are not black. Way too many white people will never understand the black experience. They may listen to it, they may go to see it, they my buy it, but they will never, never understand it. They may defend it, they may try to write about it, but they can never live it. Why, because they ain’t black. Being black does not affect them. Most white people don’t see black people other then in fear. They don’t here black people, because black people don’t hold position that may allow white people to listen to them. When you are in power you dictate and you surround yourself with people and personal that will at any cost perpetuate your power. You don’t have to understand anything or anyone out side of your rule. All they can do is go along for the ride if they like it or not. They can beg all they want but if it’s not in your program, oh well! Remember you are in power and the beggars are not like you or your kind.

For more then 400 years white people in this country have been in power. Black people have been no more then tools to only enhance that power. That is where black experience in thus country began. Black people began to hate being black. Black people began to except their lack of power and hope. But out of that gloom came some individuals who would not let or except that kind of mentality from our people. They had to preach, fight, kill and be killed in order to show their weak in spirit that how white people defined us is not the norm but only a philosophy that whites instituted in order to maintain control and power over us. It was the abuse of their power that was mandated in order to keep us in place, to keep us under control, to legally demand that we were not equal because if we were, and was left alone, we would be savage. Why, because they did not understand us and did not have too.

It was our church that preached faith and forgiveness for the people responsible for this injustice just because of our skin color. It was our church that explained the truth of why we were in the position we were in. It was our church that encouraged us to have strength against all odds. It was our church that taught reality along with salvation. Do you think main stream white people could understand these teachings? HELL NO! Why, because they were the initiators that qualified the dialog. Do you think that we are so naive that we think things have changed? Do you think that because we talk about an oppressor that we don’t understand that in order to grow and go forward that we miss the point that we must help change the ways of our oppressor also, even if we know that trying to get them to understand us will be a fight because they really don’t want or have to understand, that we know they will never share power because sharing power will insinuate equality and being equal with us is dreadful, that we know that they will blow this place up and tear it down before that happens. (Examine Black Wall Street, http://www.daveyd.com/blackwallpolitic.html) Do far too many white people think we don’t understand that after 400 years we still are only here to build their power to consume their goods but do not dare become their competition? Don’t get me wrong because a few of us do get through the cracks, but it’s not enough. Do you think we don’t understand why they’re no books in our schools, but it’s our fault? (All teachers learn from the same institutions) Do you think that we don’t understand that too many people in our families can’t put their finger on anyone in their family who has benefited from a collage education?

Now, you want us to denounce our church because they sometimes say things outside of salvation, that they say and preach at times how ignorant law and lawmakers effect our community, when everything and every social advancement of all black people if they know it or not came from black experience that originated from the black church. How can ignorant white people understand this? Yah see, they weren’t brought here against their will. They came willingly with their tradition. Ours was destroyed because of fear, ignorance, evil, dominance and total humiliation of a people for white profit only to be replaced with a culture we didn’t understand and found too cruel to learn but had too in order to live and be treated kindly, oh, but don’t educate them, keep books away from them, beat them if they’re caught with them. Even if we try to tell white people so they’d understand, it will be negative to their ears. These whites will always say, Why like that? Look, let me enslave you; strip you of your name, history, culture and language. Let me rape your wives and daughters and sell your fathers sons like cattle. Let me make laws to declare you 3/5th of a human even though you come from Kings and Queens and see what you will say in church when the time is right and things had to be said in order to keep the peace, in order to organize, in order not to give up hope or do something stupid.

You say you personally didn’t do this? That’s true, but in my lifetime I’ve read in the Jet magazine weekly about lynching and I’m only 59. Do you think this will just goes away, not for baby boomers up? Maybe those white people have forgotten because it was not happening to them. When we see wrong doing are we suppose to stand mute just because we are in church and our only voice was in our church. Our church talks negatively about us too at times not just about white people. Many whites will not understand the many challenges, functions, and duties of the black church and the pearls of its parishioners that the preacher must address without pointing too, or calling out.

So, Obama has to denounce his black experience. Hell, his mother is white. Does his association with black experience mean he hates his Mother? Obama is about change, transformation, reshaping, and modifying this America and the Worlds view of America. This unqualified attack on his character and his mission is childish, elementary and racist. If I have season tickets to basketball games, does it mean I want to be a basketball player? No, but I will gain a lot of knowledge about basketball. If I played Basketball does it mean I can’t be a Senator because of my Basketball experience? No. Does my association with Basketball mean I can’t support, enjoy, and fight for hockey and its challenges? No, and neither being a product of black experience mean I can’t be President of the United States of America and want to be the fighter to bridge the ignorance of what I’ve experienced and what others have not experienced in order to end this negative spiral of racism and government for the privilege, and neither does Obama.
Gaidi

Eliot Spitzer

The reason Eliot Spitzer was caught was because of the Patriot Act. The patriot act enabled the Federal Reserve Bank to monitor the movement of money in all USA’s bank accounts. This system checks all bank accounts every two hours. In other words, the system starts with me and next goes to you and next him and next her and so on and so forth until everyone is checked. This takes about two hours before it gets back to me and then it begins again seven days a week and twenty four hours a day.
How do I know this?
In my business I offer a check verification system called gCheck. gCheck is a system owned by a company called Giact. Giact has the rights to offer this check verification system to businesses that must take in a large amount of checks and want to avoid the 15% of them being NFS, closed, or challenged. City’s, Internet, and businesses save a huge amount of money by eliminating the high cost and problems this 15% can accrue. This system is monitored by the Federal Reserve and its Patriot Act. This means that a check that goes through this system is gold. NSF is eliminated, closed accounts eliminated, challenges eliminated to a minimum. But later on that.
Governor Eliot Spritzer was caught because of the large movement of money that raised a flag. His phone was automatically tapped and the rest is history.
Gaidi
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Bad Drinking Water

What’s the matter with them now? They are trying to say that our drinking water has medicine in it. What is it, so many parts per/billion or less? Let me say this.
I’m a plumber and I’ve worked in a waste water plant and a water purification plant and here’s the low down.
In waste water treatment water and waste flows to the waste water plant to be treated. It goes through a series of filters and chemicals in the process to be released back into the lake. These parts per/million of impurities are not harmful to the environment when released. A great deal of money and technology helps this process stay efficient and effective for this system to work as safe and reliable as can be, and is checked and double checked continually.
After treatment water is deposited into the lake. If you test water at the discharge after treatment you might get a trace of impurities you could identify, but this is not where we get our water to drink. (WE DO NOT GET THE WATER WE DRINK FROM THE AREA OF THE DISCHARGE FROM THE WASTE WATER TREATMENT PLANT.)
The water we use for drinking has its intakes miles from this discharge, and this discharge that’s deposited into the lake has trillions and trillions of gallons of moving water to dilute these small impurities. It’s like trying to fine a needle in a hay stack or as a plumber would say, piss in an ocean. I guess this study says they’ve found piss in an ocean.
Again this water is taken from the lake and treated with filters and chemicals.
And again, so many parts per/million considered safe is pumped through the water system to your faucets. Because of the infrastructure of the piping system the water will pick up more part per/million of impurities before it gets to your faucet. I just can’t believe that the test came from the tap, maybe at the discharge from waste water discharges but not the tap from your home.
Was the test from well water? Well water has its set of circumstances too.
We have a greater risk with the air we breathe then the water we drink.
And like always, never stop dreaming, never stop planning, never stop advertising, and when you do, "Let Us Mind Your Business"
Gaidi

The Haves and the Have not's

I’ve tried to leave this 2008 campaign for President of the United States alone ever sense the Michigan voters were disenfranchised. I’ve tied to leave the blog alone even though there was so much to write about concerning the elections. But, and when you use the word but, you erase every thing you’ve just said, the media just doesn’t get it. These elections are not about anything but the difference between the Haves and Have not’s.
The media is having the times of their lives analyzing this and that and getting it wrong. The people are coming out in droves to vote because of the uniqueness of the two candidates. Hillary is the voice and reprehensive of women, baby boomers and older. Women, especially white women have felt oppressed by their dominate and powerful white men. They feel this is their time to finally put men in their place. The media refuses to talk to feminist groups about who do they endorse. I’ll do it for you, 100% Hillary. (Men have women have not.) Women and their struggles to be equal just will not let them vote against gender lines.
McCain, the voice of things as usual, the status quo, saying the Union is fine and only needs some tweaking. Big business, deep pockets, money for the fortune 500 stays in place. (Big money and the powerful have, everyone else have not.)
Obama, the voice of change, is the representative of the people from the bottom up. The new verses the old, the fresh verses the stale, the changing of the guard, the youth and their turn, the separation and the end of an era from the baby boomers up, a new chapter in leadership. But the haves say they are not ready that they don’t have the experience. The world will come to an end, you will not be safe, you can’t make a deal, and hoping is a fairy tale.
The other candidates say change requires experience. To me their experience is saying that they know what’s best for me. It sounds like parents when their children tell them that they are leaving home to make it on their own. What parent is ready to except that? The only thing they should do is check on them and give them a chance, and support them so they don’t fall too hard, but don’t hold them back. We want them to be better then us, but we at some time or other must give them the rain to go forward and use our experience to guide them.
The youth is coming out to voice their time, to take control. The have not’s are coming out because they believe that finally they’ll be someone in power who’ll here them, who has experienced the same kind of life’s struggles that they themselves have lived, the middle class that is slowly eroding because of the closed government in power now, the old who is worried about their social security. (The have not’s, the people who believe in hope and know there must be a change or they will parish.)
Just think, Reagan, Bush, Clinton, Bush, Clinton, or McCain. Reagan for eight years, Bush for four, Clinton for eight, Bush for eight, If I take out Ragan that’s twenty years of just two families. Look at this Nation. McCain wants to be Reagan and Clinton will be Clinton.
Their was no war for Bill to deal with so all the money was at home. Hillary still couldn’t get national health care going.
This nation has gone to hell and the experience has taken us there, or should I have said, the haves has taken us there. The children voting now only know of two families who have been in power and they don’t like it.
I think change and hope is in order this time unless the haves take it away at the convention.
Start a business, work it slow, marry it, take it as far as it will go with honest effort and advertise, and when you do, “Let Us Mind You Business”
Gaidi